For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1284 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About HIS Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away? 12/15/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »