For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 1295 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum? 12/05/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?! 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's? 11/14/2014 Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act 11/12/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526