For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's? 11/14/2014 Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act 11/12/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526
