Recovery Fundamentals

Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When They Claim They Don't Remember What They Did During Their Affair?
Text icon Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness
Video icon Q&A When is EMDR Necessary?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing?
Text icon The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain the FANOS Exercise from EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence?
Video icon 3 Commitments After Your Affair is Discovered
Text icon What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components
Video icon Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work?
Video icon Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Overcome This Destructive Cycle?
Video icon Q&A Can You Remind Me How to Do the Voice of Love/Voice of Fear Exercise?
Text icon Denial and Recovery After an Affair
Video icon Candiece & Cornellus Craft’s Alumni Story
Video icon Betrayed: What to Know Immediately After Discovery
Video icon Tips for Surviving the Holidays
Video icon Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents?
Video icon Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story
Text icon Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs?
Video icon Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding
Video icon Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark?
Video icon Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?
Text icon Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment
Video icon Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation
Video icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened
Video icon Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery?
Video icon Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’?
Video icon Rewriting the Story You Tell
Video icon Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
Video icon When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?
Video icon Will I Ever Feel Chosen?
Video icon Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses
Video icon Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets
Video icon Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?
Video icon The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey)
Video icon The Number One Question and How to Answer It