Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? 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Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
