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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 445 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger? 1/31/2020 Q&A Where Can I Get Help for My Trauma? 1/09/2020 Q&A How to I Transform My Flooding and Anger so That I Stop Transmitting It? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings? 11/05/2019 Q&A What Do These Forms of Trauma Treatment Actually Do? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Mate to Get Professional Help? 11/05/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Q&A Is My Social Anxiety Normal at This Stage of Recovery? 10/16/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Diminishing or Ceasing Anxiety Attacks? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Changing How I View Myself Physically? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing from Suicide after Disclosure? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Doubts and Hyper-Vigilance? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery? 9/18/2019 Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Compare Their Pain with My Pain? 9/18/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode? 9/04/2019 Q&A Why Am I Still Hurting? 8/23/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019 Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Q&A Can Borderline Personality Disorder Be Brought on by Infidelity? 6/19/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage Myself? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Rage Resulting from the Affair? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Overcome Shame and Humiliation? 5/21/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »