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How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »