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Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 404 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation? 8/16/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed? 1/24/2017 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »