Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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Video Q&A Is My Husband's Argument Right? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Where Did the Weakness to Have an Affair Come From? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A Are My Mates Actions a Result of Poor Self Esteem? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Take So Many Photos of the Affair Partners? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened? 5/15/2019
Video Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem? 3/13/2019
Video Q&A How Much Blame Can We Assign to the Affair Partner? 3/13/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019
Video Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019
Text Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This? 2/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018
Video Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018
Video Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018
Video Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018
Video Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018
Video Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018
Video Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018
Video Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018
Video Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018
Video Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018
Video Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018
Video Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018
Video Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018

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