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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving?	8/03/2016
	Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce?	8/03/2016
	Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner	8/03/2016
	Q&A When Will the Loving Feelings Return?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk?	8/03/2016
	Q&A How Do I Respond to the Continual Relapse?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Is My Ambivalent Spouse Thinking About Me While Separated?	8/03/2016
	Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Does He Want Me or Are the Words Empty?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Can He Really Not Remember What Happened?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship?	8/03/2016
	Q&A How Do I Live in Limbo With an Ambivalent Unfaithful Spouse?	8/03/2016
	Q&A What Do I Do While My Spouse Disconnects From the Affair Partner?	8/03/2016
	Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'?	8/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Trust that My Sex Addicted Mate is Keeping His Mind Clear?	8/03/2016
	Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online?	7/26/2016
	Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce?	7/26/2016
	Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me?	7/26/2016
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Affair Partner Being a Family Member?	7/26/2016
	Q&A How Do I Respond to My Mate Not Making Me Feel Safe After an Affair?	7/26/2016
	Q&A Am I Grieving?	7/26/2016
	Q&A If the Affair Partner Attempts to Maintain a Relationship With my Mate, Should I Inform Their Spouse?	7/26/2016
	Q&A While in an Affair, Does it Contribute to Marital Issues?	7/26/2016
	Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition?	7/26/2016
	Q&A Can Our Sex Life Trigger Relapse for My Sex Addicted Partner?	7/26/2016
	Q&A Why Doesn't He Respond to My True Self?	7/26/2016
	Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating?	7/20/2016
	Q&A Can I Love Her Again?	7/19/2016
	Q&A Can I Regain a Joy for Life?	7/19/2016
	Q&A Would EMS Weekend Help Us?	7/19/2016
	Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk?	7/19/2016
	Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding?	7/19/2016
	Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications?	7/19/2016
	Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract?	7/19/2016
	Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage?	7/19/2016
	Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern?	7/19/2016
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face?	7/13/2016
	Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now?	7/13/2016
	Q&A We Were Both Unfaithful. What do You Suggest?	7/13/2016
	Q&A How Can I Move Out of My Shame?	7/13/2016
	Q&A Do the Betrayed Decide When It's Over?	7/13/2016
	Q&A What Software do You Suggest to Filter Against Porn?	7/13/2016
	Q&A Does He Only Think of Her When I Bring it Up?	7/13/2016
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 2	7/13/2016
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 1	7/13/2016
	Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site?	7/13/2016
	Q&A How Do We Bring Purity Back to a Defiled Marital Bed?	7/13/2016
	Q&A (Preview) Should We Consider Separating?	7/13/2016