All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now? 7/13/2016 Q&A We Were Both Unfaithful. What do You Suggest? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Out of My Shame? 7/13/2016 Q&A Do the Betrayed Decide When It's Over? 7/13/2016 Q&A What Software do You Suggest to Filter Against Porn? 7/13/2016 Q&A Does He Only Think of Her When I Bring it Up? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 2 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 1 7/13/2016 Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Do We Bring Purity Back to a Defiled Marital Bed? 7/13/2016 Q&A (Preview) Should We Consider Separating? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016 Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action? 7/12/2016 Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles? 7/12/2016 Q&A Shouldn't He Be Wooing Me Back? 7/12/2016 Q&A Can You Support Your Statement 'Faith is an Organ of the Soul'? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016 Q&A Which Should We Work on First? 7/12/2016 Q&A What Happens When Someone Dives in and Processes the Costs? 7/12/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on SAA's Guidance on Abstinence? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016 Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A Can Addicts Rid Themselves of Being Self Centered? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can We Further Our Sexual Healing? 7/01/2016 Q&A When Can I Expect for Him to Have a Response? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016 Q&A Is it Healthy for Us to Have Phone Sex? 6/28/2016 Q&A Would it be Better Without Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Talk About it Now? 6/28/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Again be Truly Comfortable? 6/28/2016 Q&A Is Loss of Libido a New Reality? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Forget My AP? 6/21/2016 Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted! 6/21/2016 Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through This Feeling? 6/21/2016 Q&A Am I Owed Financial Restitution? 6/21/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…717273747576777879…next ›last »