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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward after Betrayal and Divorce?	5/03/2017
	Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get Rid of My Shame?	5/03/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply?	5/03/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: Why Did I Do This and How Do I Get out of This Pit?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Build a New Marriage without Physical Intimacy?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Could You Explain What Serial Affairs Means Exactly?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is Our Church Safe?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is He Relapsing?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should We Change Churches?	4/25/2017
	Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction.	4/25/2017
	Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together?	4/25/2017
	Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Is Shaming?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better?	4/12/2017