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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture?	9/28/2016
	Q&A What's Appropriate in Terms of Sexual Needs for the Betrayed?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A After Harboring Hope, What Resources Are Suggested to Continue Healing After Infidelity?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Is Our Marriage Too Broken to Fix After Her Multiple Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Can You Please Explain How the Pain of Sex and Love Addiction can be Transmitted to Children?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs?	9/22/2016
	Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible?	9/22/2016
	Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner?	9/22/2016
	Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Should We Wait to Discuss the Affair and Work on Ourselves First?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use?	9/22/2016
	Q&A How About an EMS Weekend Part 2?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Which Anniversary do We Celebrate After Infidelity?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Do We Have a Higher Risk for Relapse?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner?	9/22/2016
	Q&A How Can I Ever Compare to the Addiction Sex?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me?	9/22/2016
	Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Any Reassurance that I'm Not Totally Abnormal Sexually?	9/14/2016
	Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair?	9/14/2016
	Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This?	9/14/2016
	Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal?	9/14/2016
	Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate?	9/14/2016
	Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job?	9/14/2016
	Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through?	9/14/2016
	Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together?	9/14/2016
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand the Strange Emotional Place I'm In?	9/14/2016
	Q&A How Do I Answer the Questions I Don't Remember?	9/14/2016
	Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair?	9/14/2016
	Q&A How Do I Process All This Information About the Affairs?	9/14/2016