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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me?	1/03/2020
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Sexual Fantasies?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Rebuild Trust?	1/02/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts Regarding My Situation?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Re-Establish Trust?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand This Quote?	1/02/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Does Pregnancy with the Affair Partner Affect the Healing Process?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal?	12/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing?	12/19/2019
	Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling?	12/19/2019
	Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared?	12/19/2019
	Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner?	12/16/2019
	Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth?	12/16/2019
	Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do?	12/16/2019
	How Do I Forget the Affair Partner?	12/11/2019
	Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?	12/05/2019
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?	12/05/2019
	Q&A What Do You Suggest for Renewing Wedding Vows?	12/05/2019
	Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage?	12/05/2019
	Q&A Am I Wasting My Time on Someone That Clearly Doesn't Want to Be with Me?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?	12/05/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3	12/04/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2	11/26/2019
	Q&A What Keeps an Emotional Affair from Becoming Sexual?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum?	11/22/2019
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children?	11/22/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Could You Elaborate on ‘Affairing Down’?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back?	11/22/2019
	Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough?	11/22/2019
	Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Ever Get Those Holidays, That Used to Be Our Holidays, Back?	11/22/2019