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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness?	12/06/2017
	Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?	12/06/2017
	Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Will I Ever Get past This?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?	11/28/2017
	Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?	11/28/2017
	Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Does Affair Recovery Use the Negative Label ‘Unfaithful Spouse’?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws?	11/22/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Give Up?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?	11/10/2017
	Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Will Our Situation Change?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?	11/10/2017
	Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?	11/01/2017
	Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?	11/01/2017