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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing.	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together?	12/20/2016
	Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On?	12/20/2016
	Q&A What Type of Affair is This?	12/20/2016
	Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better?	12/16/2016
	Q&A There was Infidelity Prior to Marriage. How do we Best Prepare for Marriage?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for?	12/16/2016
	Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure?	12/16/2016
	Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal?	12/16/2016
	Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery?	12/16/2016
	Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video	12/15/2016
	Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity	12/13/2016
	Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk?	12/07/2016
	Q&A Is this as Good as it Gets in Our Recovery?	12/07/2016
	Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do?	12/07/2016
	Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances?	12/07/2016
	Q&A Can You Address My Fears of What EMS Weekend Will Force me to do?	12/07/2016
	Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation?	12/01/2016
	Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Will there be a New Course Offered to Help Us Find that Next Level in Marriage?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Can you Give me a Vision for a Healed Marriage I Can Work Towards?	11/30/2016
	Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Can You make of All This?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What are Some Signs and Symptoms of a Marriage Healed After Infidelity?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Any Way to Encourage Progress in Our Recovery?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning?	11/23/2016