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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions?	7/01/2016
	Q&A Can Addicts Rid Themselves of Being Self Centered?	7/01/2016
	Q&A How Can We Further Our Sexual Healing?	7/01/2016
	Q&A When Can I Expect for Him to Have a Response?	7/01/2016
	Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love?	7/01/2016
	Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it?	7/01/2016
	Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Is it Healthy for Us to Have Phone Sex?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Would it be Better Without Me?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Will I Ever Again be Truly Comfortable?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Is Loss of Libido a New Reality?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Talk About it Now?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How Should I Continue From Here?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Forget My AP?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted!	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Work Through This Feeling?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Am I Owed Financial Restitution?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Advice for 'Getting it'?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details?	6/14/2016
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere?	6/14/2016
	Q&A What About Financial Safety?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful?	6/14/2016
	Q&A What's the Darkness Like?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Deceived Self Fear vs. Reality Based Fear?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Is Counseling Necessary?	6/14/2016
	Q&A How Can I Love Him Again?	6/14/2016
	Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency?	6/14/2016
	Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery?	6/06/2016
	Q&A Can Love Exist Again After Repeated Affairs?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do My Mate and I Get on the Same Page About Sex?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do We Address My Husband's Use of Pornography?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do I Handle the Rejection and Loneliness?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do I Grieve What My Husband did to Me?	6/06/2016
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can do to Help My Wife Get to a Place of Forgiveness?	6/06/2016
	Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery?	6/06/2016
	Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do?	6/03/2016