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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Our Small Group Dynamic?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency?	7/10/2019
	Q&A What Is Normal in Our Situation?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Does Attraction Work with Sex Addiction?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Feel like They Aren't My Second Choice?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery?	7/10/2019
	Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Apply Worton's Third Task to Infidelity?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Do I Process the Pain during the Divorce Process?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse So Stuck on the Affair Partner?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Do I Manage the Thoughts of Comparison?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Am I Safe?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time?	7/03/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts in Regards to My Issue?	7/03/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior?	7/03/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Those Who Divorce after Infidelity?	7/03/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure?	6/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Resistance to Re-Engaging Sexually with My Mate?	6/26/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse Not Being Romantic This Far into Recovery?	6/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Own My Part in the Marriage Dynamic If I’m Not Aware of It?	6/26/2019
	Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing?	6/26/2019
	Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey	6/26/2019
	Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Protect My Kids from the Damage of Divorce?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner?	6/19/2019
	Q&A Can You Give Me Hope in Light of My Wayward Spouse Choosing Divorce?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful?	6/19/2019
	Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair?	6/19/2019
	Q&A What Do I Believe?	6/19/2019
	Q&A Can Borderline Personality Disorder Be Brought on by Infidelity?	6/19/2019
	Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner?	6/19/2019
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option?	6/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Sexual Challenges?	6/11/2019
	Q&A How Can I Regain a Healthy World View Again towards Men?	6/11/2019
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent?	6/11/2019