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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?	11/10/2017
	Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Will Our Situation Change?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?	11/10/2017
	Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?	11/01/2017
	Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Do I Need to Know?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Do I Need to Know?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Am I in a Phase?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing?	10/25/2017