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	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
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	Anger: Its 6 Roots	7/22/2026
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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me?	10/25/2017
	Understanding Grief in Infidelity	10/24/2017
	Do You Struggle with Forgiveness?	10/17/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers?	10/10/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse?	10/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This?	10/10/2017
	Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues?	10/10/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim?	10/10/2017
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair?	10/09/2017
	Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity?	10/09/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover?	10/09/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing?	10/09/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate?	10/05/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle People Ignoring the Affair?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Sexual Things My Husband Would Do with His AP, but Not with Me?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Important That the Unfaithful Mourn the Loss of the Affair/Affair Partner?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Can a Man Truly Love Two Women at the Same Time?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine?	10/05/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Being Emotionally Attached and Unable to Detach?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Does It Ever Feel Okay to Get the Divorce?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get through Each Day Knowing My Mate Doesn't Love Me or Want Me?	9/27/2017
	Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation?	9/27/2017
	Q&A What Do We Do from Here?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers?	9/27/2017
	Q&A What Should My next Step Be?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Does Trauma Bonding Impact Recovery?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace?	9/27/2017
	Q&A Are There Similarities between Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Far Back Should We Go?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Is There Such Thing as A "Fake Recovery"?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way?	9/20/2017