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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Is My Wife Safe?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do We Do during This Limbo?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations?	5/24/2017
	Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame?	5/24/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Fall in Love Again with Your Mate after They Were Unfaithful?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Does His Excuse for the Affairs Truly Mean?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do You Do When Ambivalence and Limerance Don't Cover It?	5/24/2017
	What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Handle Intrusive Thoughts during Sex When I Can't Look at My Mate?	5/17/2017
	Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?”	5/17/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Emotional Flooding When We're Sexual?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago?	5/17/2017
	Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Should I Have the Same Anger towards My Affair Partner That My Spouse Has?	5/17/2017
	Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Where Was My Husband's Self Respect during the Affair?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Is It Common for a Couple Not See a Happy past and Want to Give Up?	5/17/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details?	5/17/2017
	Q&A If He Didn't Love His Affair Partner, Why Was He Planning Their Anniversary?	5/10/2017
	Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse?	5/10/2017
	Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again?	5/10/2017
	Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner?	5/10/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Have a Long Term Affair without Emotional Attachment?	5/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair?	5/10/2017
	Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame?	5/10/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse?	5/10/2017
	Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online?	5/10/2017
	Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What?	5/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate?	5/10/2017
	Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events?	5/10/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What Keeps Someone from Cheating?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Long Is Long Enough?	5/03/2017