For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 304 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 How to Find Answers 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019 Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019 Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 11/07/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
