For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 333 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue? 7/16/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality? 4/30/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now? 4/16/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
