Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 3931 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Try Separating While Also Helping the Betrayed Spouse Heal? 9/08/2021 Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021 Q&A What Progressional Steps Are Most Helpful in Recovery from Pornography Addiction and Extramarital Affairs? 9/08/2021 Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021 Q&A What Is the Role of Dopamine in Marital Sex? 9/08/2021 Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions? 9/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021 Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021 Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021 Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021 Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based? 7/08/2021 Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »