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Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1260 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video 7/18/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 6/28/2017 Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary? 6/07/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A Should I Have the Same Anger towards My Affair Partner That My Spouse Has? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent? 5/03/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »
