Recovery Fundamentals

Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.

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Text icon Do You Struggle with Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A What Should My next Step Be?
Video icon Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive?
Video icon Q&A Am I on the Right Path to Healing?
Text icon Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair
Text icon What Really Happens at EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery?
Text icon Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online
Video icon Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Not Get Annoyed or Impatient with Your Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Compete with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate on the Affair Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Handle Being at a Different Stage of Grief Than Your Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can We De-Escalate Our Toxic Fights?
Video icon Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here?
Video icon Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All?
Video icon Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Would You Describe the Difference between Regret and Remorse?
Video icon Q&A What Does Acceptance Look Like and How Do I Reach It?
Video icon Q&A Is This Co-Dependency?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reconcile These Opposing Views?
Video icon Q&A Could Someone Really Think This?
Video icon Laverne and Lischia's Mentor Video
Video icon Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much?
Video icon Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'?
Video icon Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story
Video icon Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients?
Video icon Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame?
Video icon Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand?
Video icon Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?