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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?	2/20/2020
	Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online?	2/11/2020
	Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share?	2/11/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?	2/11/2020
	Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage?	2/11/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake?	2/11/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?	1/31/2020
	Q&A Why Do I Keep Looking for Hope When There's No Reason Too?	1/31/2020
	Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy?	1/31/2020
	Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage?	1/31/2020
	Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband?	1/31/2020
	Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger?	1/31/2020
	Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking?	1/31/2020
	Q&A How Long Does It Take to Become a New Person in Recovery?	1/31/2020
	Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage?	1/31/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?	1/31/2020
	Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure?	1/16/2020
	Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This?	1/16/2020
	Q&A What Is ‘Therapeutic Disclosure’ as It Relates to Pre-Polygraph Testing?	1/16/2020