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Type	Title	Posted
	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair?	6/28/2017
	Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner?	6/28/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity?	6/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End?	6/28/2017
	Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship?	6/28/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful?	6/21/2017
	Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for Change?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage?	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do We Disclose the Separation and Reasons behind It?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us?	5/26/2017