All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 5051 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do I Explain to Our Kids Why Daddy Isn't Here? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Can I Break Down My Walls and Be Intimate Again? 9/07/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary? 9/07/2016 Q&A What Can We do to Enjoy Sex Again? 9/07/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover? 9/07/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healing in My Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations and Words for My Unfaithful Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What Can We Do to Make Them Leave Their AP? 9/07/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Given Our History Now? 9/07/2016 Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A What's Causing This and How do We Fix it? 8/30/2016 Q&A Will the Larger Problems be Addressed? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse the Benefits of Small Groups? 8/30/2016 Q&A What's Causing This and How do We Fix it? 8/30/2016 Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Past My Reaction to Triggering Images? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can We do to Reconnect and Gain Happiness? 8/24/2016 Q&A When Does it Become Harmful to Want to Be Wanted? 8/24/2016 Q&A I Want Permission to Leave. 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage? 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Does This Verse from Proverbs Mean for Me? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Do We Create a New Pattern and Move Past the Shame? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Should I Transform My Pain Into? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A My Mate has Changed Drastically for the Better. Is This Real? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Much Recovery is Needed Before Energy is Put Towards 'Us'? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love? 8/09/2016 Q&A Where is the True Empathy? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others? 8/09/2016 Q&A Is it Too Much to Ask for More Sex? 8/09/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility? 8/09/2016 Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs 8/03/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…707172737475767778…next ›last »