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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Is It Wrong That My Depression Has Lasted so Long?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Does My Marriage Have a Chance of Making It?	9/20/2018
	Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Tell My Spouse That I’ve Given Her a Gift by Staying?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband Feeling Controlled?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do We Get Closure?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help?	9/12/2018
	Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is Re-Connection Possible for Us?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship?	9/12/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Could Marriage Be Beneficial to Our Recovery Process?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Am I Still Deluded?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Can You Explain How Abandonment and Abuse Affects Child Development?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers?	9/12/2018
	Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can We Stop Nightmares about the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Ending the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get beyond This?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Why Is the Affair Partner so Hateful?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better?	8/29/2018