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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story	7/19/2017
	Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video	7/18/2017
	Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship?	7/12/2017
	Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?	7/12/2017
	Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?	7/12/2017
	Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner?	7/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me?	7/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair?	6/28/2017