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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	8/01/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair?	8/01/2018
	Is it Love or Infatuation?	7/25/2018
	Q&A How Do I Keep from Making Things Worse?	7/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Respond to the Disconnect between the Two of Us?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Be Sexually Intimate during Recovery?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Is Our Relationship Too Broken?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Can You Suggest Ways to Address Our Issues?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Is the Affair the Problem or a Symptom?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Am I over Acting or Asking for Too Much?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can You Ever Get over Triggers When They Are All around You?	7/23/2018
	How Do I Handle My Lack of Sexual Desire?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Maintain My Own Identity While Still Being Safe in a Relationship?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Should I Leave or Should I Stay and Wait?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do We Cut Ties with People That Enable Destructive Patterns?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Can We Recover, or Is This Betrayal Too Much?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Long Do I Wait for My Unfaithful Spouse to Re-Engage with Me?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What If He Can Never Truly See the Affair Partner for Who They Are?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Start a Conversation When There Is so Much Hurt between Us?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Truly Is Safe?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking?	7/11/2018
	Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video	7/06/2018
	Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Wife Still Friends with People That Helped Hide Her Affair?	7/06/2018