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Type	Title	Posted
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026
	Rebuilding What You Broke: Boundaries & Safety after Infidelity with Jim Ramos	8/24/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4629 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work?	2/04/2026
	Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?	2/04/2026
	Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online?	2/04/2026
	Q&A How Do We Overcome This Destructive Cycle?	2/04/2026
	Six Types of Infidelity: Why the "Type" Changes Everything	2/02/2026
	Dear Unfaithful Spouse: When All Hope Seems Lost	1/26/2026
	Q&A What If My Unfaithful Spouse Feels They Do Not Need Therapy or Help?	1/21/2026
	Q&A What Do We Do In A Situation This Earth Shattering?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Can You Remind Me How to Do the Voice of Love/Voice of Fear Exercise?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Is My Spouse's Financial Infidelity Linked to Their Affair or Is It a Separate Issue?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day?	1/21/2026
	Denial and Recovery After an Affair	1/21/2026
	Is Trust Ever Possible After An Affair?	1/16/2026
	Candiece & Cornellus Craft’s Alumni Story	1/14/2026
	Betrayed: What to Know Immediately After Discovery	1/07/2026
	Rediscovering Sex and Intimacy After an Affair	1/05/2026
	Tips for Surviving the Holidays	12/24/2025
	Why Did God Let the Affair Happen?	12/22/2025
	Q&A How Will These Delays and Trickle Truth Affect Our Recovery Timeline?	12/19/2025
	Q&A How Do I Respond to What Seems Like Selfish Demands From Her to Do Things As We Did Before?	12/19/2025
	Q&A Can You Give More Information on the Love-Addiction Affair Type and What It Is?	12/19/2025
	Sharing with Others	12/10/2025
	Can this Marriage be Saved?	12/10/2025
	Betrayal Trauma	12/10/2025
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires?	12/09/2025
	Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States?	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels?	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2.	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents?	12/09/2025
	Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity	11/25/2025
	Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset?	11/12/2025
	Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story	11/12/2025
	Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle?	11/05/2025
	Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us?	11/05/2025
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse?	11/05/2025
	Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain	10/29/2025
	Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head?	10/22/2025
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner?	10/22/2025
	Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain?	10/22/2025
	Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement?	10/22/2025
	Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs?	10/22/2025
	Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding	10/22/2025
	Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair	10/08/2025
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness?	10/02/2025
	Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity?	10/02/2025