For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

347 Resources
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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Feel Affair Recovery Content Is All for the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Text icon The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help the Betrayed Overcome Comparison With the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Finding Alternative Ways to Meet Needs for Connection Reduce My Perceived 'Need' for Sex?
Text icon Did You Marry the Wrong Person?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth?
Text icon Relapse: Why Can't You Stop?
Text icon The Fear of Vulnerability: Why We Choose Affairs Over Intimacy
Video icon Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day?
Text icon Denial and Recovery After an Affair
Video icon Tips for Surviving the Holidays
Video icon Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents?
Text icon Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain?
Video icon Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding
Text icon How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here?
Video icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened
Video icon Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal
Video icon Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?
Video icon Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It?
Text icon Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key
Text icon Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair
Video icon Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?
Text icon Wanting to Be Wanted
Text icon Am I Who They Want?
Video icon Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood?
Text icon Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?
Text icon How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse?
Video icon Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal?
Video icon Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective
Text icon How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity
Video icon Were They Thinking of Me?
Video icon The Fantasyland of an Affair
Video icon Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself?