Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness 571 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Should I Change to Get Out of My Rut? 2/02/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Avoid These Common Mistakes 1/27/2016 Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Do We Reclaim These Locations? 1/26/2016 Q&A Will Our Story Ever Be Beneficial to Share? 1/26/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Do I Have to Know About it? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 11/19/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate? 10/01/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015 Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015 Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time? 8/25/2015 Q&A Should I Run Away? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth? 8/25/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015 Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night? 7/28/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 6/26/2015 Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015 Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do You Know When You Have Worked Through the Pain? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112next ›last »