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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 539 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children? 9/26/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »