How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 165 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner? 2/22/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue? 12/20/2016 Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity? 10/12/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is There Anything I Can do to Help My Wife Get to a Place of Forgiveness? 6/06/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Forward Without Being Forgiven? 5/03/2016 Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness? 3/08/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness? 8/04/2015 Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair? 5/19/2015 Q&A Which Comes First, Forgiveness or Trust? 5/12/2015 Q&A How do You Heal Broken Parent Relationships Because of an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
