How to Forgive

Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward.

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Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Stop Focusing on My Past So He Will Work on His Addiction?
Video icon Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue?
Video icon Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated?
Video icon Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group?
Video icon Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon?
Video icon Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law?
Video icon Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind?
Video icon Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving?
Video icon Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can do to Help My Wife Get to a Place of Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Forward Without Being Forgiven?
Video icon Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship?
Audio icon Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness?
Audio icon Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake?
Video icon How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism?
Video icon Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge?
Video icon Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You?
Video icon Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Which Comes First, Forgiveness or Trust?
Video icon Q&A How do You Heal Broken Parent Relationships Because of an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession?
Video icon Q&A Why am I Still Upset?
Audio icon Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now?
Video icon Q&A Can We Recover From This?