Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger?
Video icon Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Deal with Triggers That Just Can't Be Avoided?
Video icon Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?
Video icon Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together?
Video icon Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Psychological Behavior You Have Seen Before?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help with Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do for the Wayward Spouse's Trauma?
Video icon Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight?
Video icon Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart?
Video icon Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices?
Video icon Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity?
Video icon Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Have Multiple Affair Types?
Video icon Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Does an Emotional Affair Affect Your Sex Life?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers?
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior?
Video icon Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce?