Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 3983 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Remain Positive about Moving Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Are Some Exercises We Could Use to Help Us Let Go and Move Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could Overwhelming Sadness Be Anger in Disguise? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again? 6/19/2020 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is This Too Much to Overcome? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend? 6/19/2020 Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage? 6/09/2020 Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324…next ›last »