Relapse Prevention Relapse is not the end of recovery, nor is it necessarily inevitable, but you will need a plan in place to maintain recovery. Learn to stay the course through the seasons of recovery. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 337 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner? 12/16/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Make Sense of My Mates Relapse? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019 Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »