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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 325 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner? 12/16/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Make Sense of My Mates Relapse? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019 Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse? 11/26/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »