Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 293 Resources Type Title Posted Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 11/10/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Becoming a Group Leader: 6/05/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »