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	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
	Why is Trusting Again So Hard?	7/29/2026
	Anger: Its 6 Roots	7/22/2026
	The Biggest Myths About Unfaithful Wives	7/15/2026
	Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds	6/24/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?	7/02/2025
	Will I Ever Feel Chosen?	7/02/2025
	Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses	6/25/2025
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?	6/18/2025
	Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?	6/12/2025
	Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?	6/12/2025
	The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey)	6/11/2025
	The Number One Question and How to Answer It	6/04/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?	5/28/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?	5/28/2025
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?	5/28/2025
	Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?	5/28/2025
	The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma	5/28/2025
	Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair	5/21/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?	5/14/2025
	How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?”	5/14/2025
	Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair	5/07/2025
	Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?	5/06/2025
	Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?	5/06/2025
	Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?	5/06/2025
	Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding	4/30/2025
	Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?	4/23/2025
	Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?	4/23/2025
	Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety	4/23/2025
	Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?	4/16/2025
	Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?	4/16/2025
	The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair	4/16/2025
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?	4/09/2025
	Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?	4/09/2025
	Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves?	4/09/2025
	The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage	4/09/2025
	Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?	4/02/2025
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?	4/02/2025
	Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?	4/02/2025
	Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse?	4/02/2025
	Lies We Believe About Our Spouse	4/02/2025
	Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?	4/01/2025
	Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment?	4/01/2025
	Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?	4/01/2025
	Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?	4/01/2025
	Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It?	4/01/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse?	3/26/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?	3/26/2025
	Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'?	3/26/2025