Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Free Resources Type Title Posted Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 5/2/2018 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 4/25/2018 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 4/19/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 4/11/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 3 - Will It Ever End? 4/4/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 2 - Is an Emotional Affair More Destructive Than a Physical Affair? 3/28/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 1 - Which is Worse? Emotional Affair or Physical Affair 3/22/2018 The Fight to Forgive 3/14/2018 Hope for Healing Excerpt: "Is My Life Out of Control"? 3/6/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 2/7/2018 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 1/31/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Dealing with Reminders 1/10/2018 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 1/3/2018 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 12/13/2017 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 12/5/2017 How Could You? Part III - Moral Justification 11/29/2017 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 11/15/2017 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 11/9/2017 Why She Cheats 11/1/2017 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 10/12/2017 Denial and Recovery 10/4/2017 The Fantasyland of an Affair 9/27/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 9/6/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 8/23/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 2 - Not Getting It 8/16/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 8/9/2017 Were They Thinking of Me? 8/2/2017 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 7/13/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 7/6/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 6/28/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 6/21/2017 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 6/14/2017 Am I Who They Want? 6/7/2017 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 5/31/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 5/17/2017 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/10/2017 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 5/3/2017 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 2 4/25/2017 previous <1234> next
