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Type	Title	Posted
	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together?	7/12/2016
	Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Shouldn't He Be Wooing Me Back?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Can You Support Your Statement 'Faith is an Organ of the Soul'?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Which Should We Work on First?	7/12/2016
	Q&A What Happens When Someone Dives in and Processes the Costs?	7/12/2016
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on SAA's Guidance on Abstinence?	7/12/2016
	Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'?	7/01/2016
	Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred?	7/01/2016
	Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions?	7/01/2016
	Q&A Can Addicts Rid Themselves of Being Self Centered?	7/01/2016
	Q&A How Can We Further Our Sexual Healing?	7/01/2016
	Q&A When Can I Expect for Him to Have a Response?	7/01/2016
	Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love?	7/01/2016
	Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it?	7/01/2016
	Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Is it Healthy for Us to Have Phone Sex?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Would it be Better Without Me?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Will I Ever Again be Truly Comfortable?	6/28/2016
	Q&A Is Loss of Libido a New Reality?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Talk About it Now?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn?	6/28/2016
	Q&A How Should I Continue From Here?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Forget My AP?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted!	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Work Through This Feeling?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Am I Owed Financial Restitution?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Advice for 'Getting it'?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal?	6/21/2016
	Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair?	6/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details?	6/14/2016
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere?	6/14/2016
	Q&A What About Financial Safety?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful?	6/14/2016
	Q&A What's the Darkness Like?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Deceived Self Fear vs. Reality Based Fear?	6/14/2016
	Q&A Is Counseling Necessary?	6/14/2016