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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Persevere through the Anger and Break the Stalemate?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Programs Would You Suggest for My Unfaithful Husband?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is This Infidelity?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Can We Connect during the Time Away from Each Other?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Empathize?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay to Seek Counsel from My Pastor Even Though My Spouse Doesn't Want To?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Am I Stuck in the Healing Process?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do You Make Life Changing Decisions a Few Months after D-Day?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Successful Is the Married for Life Aftercare Program?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Our Marriage?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Helping My Mate with PTSD?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is There Something Tangible to Look toward When You Can't Trust Your Own Gut?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is It Time to Bite the Bullet and End the Marriage?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Long do I Wait for My Mate to Choose the Relationship?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What's Next for Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Should We Revisit Locations That Trigger Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Should I Focus On?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What's Wrong with Me?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle Seeing My Mates Affair Partner on a Regular Basis?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Grieve My Husbands Feelings for the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar?	4/05/2018
	Q&A Is It True That Sometimes "Rock Bottom" Is the Best Foundation from Which to Build On?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Help Our Children after Involving Them Too Much?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Why Did My Unfaithful Husband Tell His Friends about the Affair?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Can I Move past the Physical Part of the Infidelity?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Need to Make My Husband Pay for What He Did?	3/28/2018
	Q&A What’s Your Opinion about This Recovery Method?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconnect with My Mate Again?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Can I Find the Help I Need to Process What I Am Feeling?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Why Is Everything Great until I Get Triggered?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Is Time to Draw the Line in the Sand?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Will I Ever Move past This and Desire a Connection Again?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Why Save the Marriage Instead of Starting New Elsewhere?	3/23/2018