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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work?	9/26/2019
	Q&A Is My Situation a Common One?	9/26/2019
	Q&A Will We Ever Have a Healthy Marriage?	9/26/2019
	Q&A What Is Sexual Imprinting and Its Impact on Sex in a Marriage?	9/26/2019
	Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down?	9/26/2019
	Q&A As I Move Forward in Recovery, I Feel That I No Longer Love My Mate. Can You Provide Direction?	9/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger?	9/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Survive If I Have to Live with the Affair Partner?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Should I Put a Hold on the Divorce If My Mate Is Willing to Participate in Hope for Healing?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal When I Don't Have Resources in My Area?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Am I Dealing with a Spouse Who Has OCD or Is a Narcissist?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Can I Heal in This Situation?	9/18/2019
	Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Make Sense of My Mates Relapse?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Return the Honor and the Innocence of Marriage to My Husband?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Doubts and Hyper-Vigilance?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Do All Men Compartmentalize?	9/18/2019
	Q&A What Matters More in Recovery, Intention or Impact?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Will Seeing a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Cause More Harm Than Good?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Recover to Quickly?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery?	9/18/2019
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our In-House-Separation?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Compare Their Pain with My Pain?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Is It My Responsibility to Initiate at This Point in Our Healing?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?	9/18/2019
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets?	9/18/2019
	Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair?	9/11/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?	9/11/2019