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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught?	8/06/2019
	Q&A What Can I Do to Protect My Children?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Break Through?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner?	8/02/2019
	Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery?	8/02/2019
	Q&A How Can I Ever Dare to Be Vulnerable and Trust Again?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me?	8/02/2019
	Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man?	8/02/2019
	Q&A How Can We Overcome Sexual Performance Issues and Improve Intimacy?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Should We Be Concerned about the Content of Our Dreams during Recovery?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Is It True That People with Trust Issues Often Choose Untrustworthy Partners?	8/02/2019
	Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery?	7/24/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me?	7/24/2019
	Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate?	7/24/2019
	Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair?	7/24/2019
	Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers?	7/24/2019
	Q&A Has My Husband's Sexual Addiction Ruined His Ability to Be Attracted to Me?	7/24/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty?	7/24/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Understanding and Expressing My Emotions?	7/24/2019
	Q&A Because of Medical Problems Our Sex Life Has Become All about Me and There's Nothing for Him. What Can We Do?	7/24/2019
	Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest?	7/17/2019
	Q&A Could You Provide Some Feedback on Infidelity That Happens in Good Marriages?	7/17/2019
	Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out?	7/17/2019
	Q&A Am I Being Used?	7/17/2019
	Q&A How Do We Create a New Marriage If the Old Marriage Is Dead?	7/17/2019
	Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around?	7/10/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Our Small Group Dynamic?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency?	7/10/2019
	Q&A What Is Normal in Our Situation?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Does Attraction Work with Sex Addiction?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Feel like They Aren't My Second Choice?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact?	7/10/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need?	7/10/2019
	Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery?	7/10/2019
	Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect?	7/10/2019