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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Respond to the Disconnect between the Two of Us?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Be Sexually Intimate during Recovery?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Is Our Relationship Too Broken?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Can You Suggest Ways to Address Our Issues?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Is the Affair the Problem or a Symptom?	7/23/2018
	Q&A Am I over Acting or Asking for Too Much?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can You Ever Get over Triggers When They Are All around You?	7/23/2018
	How Do I Handle My Lack of Sexual Desire?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair?	7/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Maintain My Own Identity While Still Being Safe in a Relationship?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Should I Leave or Should I Stay and Wait?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do We Cut Ties with People That Enable Destructive Patterns?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Can We Recover, or Is This Betrayal Too Much?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Long Do I Wait for My Unfaithful Spouse to Re-Engage with Me?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her?	7/16/2018
	Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What If He Can Never Truly See the Affair Partner for Who They Are?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Start a Conversation When There Is so Much Hurt between Us?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Truly Is Safe?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy?	7/16/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse?	7/16/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair?	7/11/2018
	Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light?	7/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking?	7/11/2018
	Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video	7/06/2018
	Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Wife Still Friends with People That Helped Hide Her Affair?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	7/06/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Can We Get out of This Destructive Cycle?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting?	6/27/2018
	Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment?	6/27/2018
	Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing?	6/27/2018
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence?	6/27/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery?	6/27/2018