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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Can You make of All This?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What are Some Signs and Symptoms of a Marriage Healed After Infidelity?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Any Way to Encourage Progress in Our Recovery?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Upcoming Divorce, Holidays and Children - More Pretend Normal?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do We Explain My Wife's Affair to Our Daughter?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Any Advice for Us After a Huge Backslide?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning?	11/23/2016
	Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do I Face this Ongoing Trauma While my Spouse 'Let's Go' of the Affair Partner?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How is Recovery Possible After a 10 Year Affair?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner?	11/23/2016
	Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse?	11/23/2016
	Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated?	11/23/2016
	Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses	11/16/2016
	Q&A Could my Unfaithful Wife Be in the Neutral Stage?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal?	11/02/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery?	11/02/2016
	Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph?	11/02/2016
	Q&A What Type of Affair Was This?	11/02/2016
	Q&A How Can We Safely Have Intimacy While He Sustains From Sexual Addiction?	11/02/2016
	Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior?	11/02/2016
	Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me?	11/02/2016
	Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him?	10/24/2016
	Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This?	10/24/2016