All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Safely Break off the Affair with a Colleague? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Steps Do You Recommend in Preparation for EMS Weekend? 8/14/2019 Q&A When Is the Right Time to Talk about Trust? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Restoration during Separation? 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Q&A How Do You Know If You’re Acting in Love and Not in an Accusatory Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Learn to Enjoy Anything in My Life? 8/06/2019 Q&A Which Path Should I Take? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Process All This in a Healthy Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Special Again? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Exactly Does Repair Work Look Like? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Protect My Children? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 8/06/2019 Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Break Through? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019 Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner? 8/02/2019 Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair? 8/02/2019 Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Dare to Be Vulnerable and Trust Again? 8/02/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome Sexual Performance Issues and Improve Intimacy? 8/02/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship? 8/02/2019 Q&A Should We Be Concerned about the Content of Our Dreams during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Is It True That People with Trust Issues Often Choose Untrustworthy Partners? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…293031323334353637…next ›last »
