All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017 Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details? 4/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can this Be Turned Around? 4/05/2017 Q&A Will the doubting stop? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017 Q&A How does one achieve closure from a marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do you ease back into a physical relationship with your spouse after D-Day? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Q&A Am I Selfish for Wanting a Divorce after He Has Dishonored Me? 3/29/2017 Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’? 3/29/2017 Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With? 3/29/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…616263646566676869…next ›last »