For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Text icon The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change
Video icon Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence?
Video icon Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?
Video icon Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt?
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now?
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details?
Video icon Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His?
Video icon Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything?
Text icon Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough
Text icon Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored?
Text icon Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery?
Text icon Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions
Text icon Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction?
Text icon Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted
Text icon Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To?
Video icon Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation?
Text icon Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids
Text icon How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic
Video icon Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity?
Video icon Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail?
Video icon A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering
Video icon Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing?
Text icon The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy
Video icon Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse?