Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023
Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023
Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023
Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023
Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023
Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023
Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023
Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023
Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023
Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022
Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022
Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022
Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022
The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022
Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022
Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022
Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022
Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022
Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021
Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021
