For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 305 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair? 1/14/2021 Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered? 9/03/2020 Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed? 9/03/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue? 7/16/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality? 4/30/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now? 4/16/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
