Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020
Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020
Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020
Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed? 1/09/2020
Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019
Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019
Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life? 12/05/2019
Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/05/2019
Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019
Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019
Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing? 11/13/2019
Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019
Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019
Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019
Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019
Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019
Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019
Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019
Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019
Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019
Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019
Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019
Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019
Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019
Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019
Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019
Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019
Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019
Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019
Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/03/2019
Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019
Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019
Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019
Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019
Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019
Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019
Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019
Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019
Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019
Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018
Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018
Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018
Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018
