For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 305 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD? 3/23/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
