For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man?
Video icon Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out?
Video icon Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs?
Text icon Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate?
Video icon Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do?
Video icon Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past?
Video icon Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?
Video icon Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return?
Video icon Q&A Am I Still Deluded?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2