Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1184 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt? 12/20/2017 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A What Should My next Step Be? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works? 9/20/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »