Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 1250 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated? 8/01/2018 Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process? 8/01/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication? 7/06/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love? 5/02/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted? 4/05/2018 Q&A Is It True That Sometimes "Rock Bottom" Is the Best Foundation from Which to Build On? 3/28/2018 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life) 3/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »