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Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1250 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage? 2/08/2017 Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017 Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again? 1/18/2017 Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017 Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016 Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal? 12/16/2016 Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery? 12/16/2016 Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Any Advice for Us After a Huge Backslide? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How is Recovery Possible After a 10 Year Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Stay in My Marriage With Fear Based Motivation and Find True Happiness Eventually? 10/24/2016 Q&A Are There Any Similarities Between the Betrayed Spouses that Don't Reconcile? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Manage My Husband's Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will the Nightmare Ever End so I Can Find a Brighter Future? 10/24/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »
